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24 hours since my last meal. Through digestive problems and red eyes, I've been wandering through the house, the blanket over my shoulders, trying to figure out what to do with myself. What does a person do when he cannot indulge in the one thing that kept him going?

He uses the ashes of what he has left. You take a dancer and amputate his legs, he'll dance with his arms. You take a painter and rip off his fingers, he'll hold the brush between his teeth. Likewise, I'll take my memories and preserve them.

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It felt like hours. My leg twitched as I waited in my kitchen/living room, hair coiffed and wardrobe settled. Some sitcom was on. My hair kept bugging me. I had just cut it after waiting 2 hours at the barber and it wasn't quite doing what I wanted it to do.

The wait was only fair, though. I made him wait for nearly two weeks after he first called me and asked to hang out. I kept saying no. I was afraid that he wouldn't be anything that he expected.

We were only internet friends prior to this. We hadn't met (technically I did "see" him at the beach two months prior to this) and I was ridiculously insecure about myself. What if I weren't as animated in person? What if I totally didn't look like my pictures? What if he didn't like me? I met someone who I really clicked with (we would talk for hours on the phone at night) and I didn't want to lose him. I was afraid to take that risk.

But I did. He called me while I was waiting at the barber and after giving wishy-washy answers, I gave him my address. He'd pick me up as soon as I got home.

So there I was, waiting at home, waiting for the hanging out to begin. He came half an hour after the time he said he would be there. Oh, how I'd come to get used to this. His reason: took a wrong turn off the freeway.

I got in the car and it was dark. He was wearing some kind of button down shirt with a collar and a pair of American Eagle jeans. He was dressed nicely and I...wasn't, really. My first impression: gosh, this guy's fingers are really long. They looked like spiders on the gear.

We talked in the car. Not so bad. We went to downtown because that's what I suggested to do. We were looking for the other La Vic's, not the one by SJ state. That one was closed during this time for renovations or something. We ended up getting lost and defaulted to Cheesecake Factory.

We had nachos. It became a staple for us for a few months after that. He talked about how the last time he was here, he had his date feed him. I quirked my brow and said, "Uh, you brought the wrong guy if you expect me to be doing that." Laughs later, he said he wasn't, honest.

It was 11 o'clock when we left. I was marveling over the fact that oh god, I've never been out past 11 o'clock if it wasn't school related! But I didn't tell him that. I didn't want to sound uncool.

We went to the bank so I could withdraw some cash while he waited in the car. He started it before I was in, so I decided to jump on the hood. I told him that he was gonna leave, I would cling onto the car while he drove. He said he would never do that.

He took me home. We talked on the phone for a bit more after. I went to sleep smiling, knowing that we were still friends, no matter what the medium.